The many ambitions just like dreams...

Everyone has a dream to follow in life. We often start thinking of what we'll become when we'll grow up. What was your ambition in life? What are you doing right now, is it the same you decided on when you were a kid?

I'll tell you my story...

When I was a kid, I always wanted to be a doctor just like other kids. When I grew a little older, I wanted to become anything but not a teacher. After that I thought to become a fashion designer, as I was creative as people said and loved to design clothes. Later on my English lead me to go for journalism. Also, as an option, I decided to be a lawyer because of my argumentative skills. But I tell you, this didn't stopped here. I'm still looking out... also becoming an author eas also in my list..

So, all I wanted to say through this post is that ambitions are just like dreams, it changes just like time. But after a certain time, we tend to realise what actually we want to achieve or become in our life.

Dreams changes every night, but our heart knows what we actually dream (want) in our life.
The many dreams of future are just a way of making us determined towards what we want to achieve. 

It makes us focus towards life and what's wrong in having different dreams atleast you have variety in them... just try option in dreams and then selecting the best outcome. How will that be like???

Keep one thing in mind at the end of the day be focussed on what you do, as it directs you towards your success.

As I say , life is to live and not to sit and regret.....

Trust: measurable or just a simple belief

Have you ever trusted somebody? Of course yes. If not many then atleast some eg. Parents. Trust is the foundation for any relation. If you can't trust somebody than how can you be with them.

People say you can't trust everybody. You know who can betray you.. okhh got it. But how can I know whom to trust and whom not. Is it written on sombody's face that he or she is trustworthy? Or are there any signs or some kind of characteristics that defines trust. If there are some of these then how can we trust that they are right or wrong?

Now after so much of confusion on to trust or not, I've have a different t ake.on this, " To trust someone we need to spend time with them. And when we spend time we automatically tend to develop 1st block of trust. By this I can conclude that if you want to trust somebody you don't need reasons for that it just happens. You can't measure it . Its just that inner feeling what we say gut feeling that tells us to trust."

There are many so called super intelligent or who knows everything kind of people, haven't they been betrayed in life? Its never that you know everything, you get to know by age , experiences, etc. By everything we experience may it be good or bad, we learn from it and becomes wiser. Everyone can shower you with their so-called knowledge, but its ultimately you who will be living this decision. 

Also what I personally feel is that trust is something you always need to have or else nothing strong can be built. But don't trust someone blindly is the word. Still I feel if you give your 100% trust even if you get betrayed it would be the otherone who will be guilty of betrayal.

So its your call, don't go by others words, its your life, live it the way you want it to be. No one can teach you to trust, it's all in you, your heart...

Life is to live and not to sit and regret...

music after_effects

Music is my all time medicine for just any problem. I'm sure most of you or I say maximum of you has used music as your medicine too. May it be boredom of  long monotonous journey or stress releiving agent, your party friend to breakup consultant; or your crush's facination story, everybody has used music to share it.
The calmness of mind it gives is uncomparable. Music acts as your personal therapy.  When sad or happy, the peppiest music in your playlist can make your day. 
For every special occasion, there's one music that suits your need. Music accompanied by dance can be a total stress buster.
Everyone of you, remember your 1st crush at school, I'm sure you must had a song for it which now when you'll remember now will make you laugh to the heights. Now rememember how your daily journey from home to college or office to home be like if your phone's handy playlist wasn't there to accompany you? Or those long sleepless nights where music was the only the only one to hear your heart.
Even your loneliness can become a spontanious party like if you make music your friend of all times. Who says its only the living you need to share your thoughts. Grab your mp3 or iPod or regular cell phones and swim in the melodies of music, you can even pick up your pen and paper and simply write what you feel, you never know you can bring out your hidden talent of your's and be the next Enrique or one of your choice.
Baby I'm addicted and all I really know that your the drug that keeps me from dying....
And as I say, life is to live and..... rest you know, I don't want to repeat it again and again..

Please don't stop the music..... lalalaaalalaaaa....

The curious-cautious ride..

'College life' this particular term makes everyone fall in the traps of thought. Those who had lived it, has their own stupid, funny,  adventurous stories to tell. On the other hand those who are still in their schools have it as their dream, freedom from uniforms, no rules to be followed, no need to get up early in the morning, and specially bunks..
Well I belong to a middle category, i.e those who are living it. When I was in my school I used to fantasise how would it actually be like in college. Specially no uniforms!  I had always been a late comer in school so, no need to follow the time rules made me more facinated towards college.
The first day I went to the college, there was a wave of mix feelings inside me 'one of scared to go to a new environment  and interestingly curious of the same thing'. It was just like 1st day at school where at the start you you cry because you don't want to go and at the end its you only who doesn't want to leave those new friends.
Since, I'm in my second year of college;  I have experienced both the first and a little of the second categories I mentiomed above. I have my bag of silly-stupid stories with me, where I have the craziest stuff thought I think they are not as adventurous as my school stuff.
I think I'll have my stories ready at the end of my journey of college to tell my nephews and  neices. From crazy acts to adventurous trips, from scoldings to bunks, from friends to  loss of trust, heartbreak, crushes, etc. Etc.
But one thing from my college days I've learnt is that despite of having fun with friends never forget your limits, make friends and have as fun as you can because it doesn't comes back, don't trust any of your friends blindly because it really hurts when they break trust, and most importantly, choose your peers wisely.
One more thing that I learned is that you get to know by your mistakes, and these mistakes are the ones which make you wiser at the emd of the day..
In the end as I say, life is to live and not to sit and regret. Enjoy each and every moment of your life as its your last. You never know wheather it will come back or not... :):D

Misunderstandings v/s Egos

The title itself describes the tussle between misunderstandings and egoes. Often when a fight takes place between us and our loved ones, the main reason is misunderstandings. Though its not the only reson, buy in most cases this is the only thing that makes a small fight into a biggggg issue.
Misunderstandings often takes place between two people. But the only thing which  can clesr it is just a small conversation where every individual is given a fair chance to speak their heart out. But the problem arises when this small conversation turns into a  battle,  where only you are right  and the other one is wrong or I say a fool ( because he's trying to talk to you ).
Here comes the role of taking decision wheather to talk or not. In this sort of situation, everything gets spoiled just because of our egoes.
Its not that both the parties doesn't want to reconcile, but the question who will put aside his/her ego and sort the things out? In most cases, the only things to sort things off is a little sorry, which gets hidden behind our huge egoes.
Just think once, is a little 5 letter word 'sorry' that difficult to say? Is our ego much bigger then our relationships?
Many relations can be saved if misunerstandings are cleared by letting our egoes be at bay, rather then regretting later what if I had said sorry. 

At the end as I say, Life is to live and not to sit and regret.

Table No. 21

I recently watched this movie. Though I had least interest in watching it, but since I was getting bored  and there was nothing on t.v  worth watching, so I gave it s try.

Table No. 21 is a film with a lesser known actors or I say without any superstars has only one big name in it Paresh Rawal, along with Rajiv Khandelwal and newcommer Tena Desae. Directed by Aditya Datt, the film is set around pertinal social issue of ragging.

The first poster of the film gained my attentsion which was quite attractive. The movie starts with a song which might make you rethink of watching it. But do give it a try and that song is quite nice.

Its a story of a couple who fell in love in college followed by marriage. Their honmoon holidays gave them a surprise when they come across Paresh Raval, who offered them to earn crores by being part of his show.

Here comes the spice in the story followed by strings of dares given by him to the couple who neither can leave the show nor the money which they are in dire need of, since the husband is jobless...

The main plot of the story is revealed only at the end, which makes you glued to the movie till the end.

Every actor performed really well and worth applauding...

This makes me think why we always tend to get attracted with glamourous and big budget movies with big stars in it. Well someyimes its not only budget or stars but the concept behind. ?
I wish I would have realised it earlier so that the movie would have earned a little more.. Next time I'll definately keep this in mond..

As I say, life is to live and not to sit and regret..

DECISIONS. ... :-[

Taking your own decisions seems to be a tough call. Specially for those who have always been dependent on others more specificaly on their family. But on the other hand, there is also a bunch of people who have clearity in their thoughts soo well that its only them who comes first when it comes to decision making.
After categorising whether you can or can not make decision, there comes a third category I.e who are allowed?
You'll say, everyone has the right to make there own decisions. No one can impose their thoughts over other.... well I do agree with this statement. But lets look at the other side.
Right from the time, when I was in my school, everyone used to ask me to give suggestions to them and I loved to do that. I was a very clear headed person on what I want to have and what not in life.
But on the other hand, I always asked my parents or my brother on every decision I make. You will call it respect. But I think despite of being head strong I was dependent on my family, or I say about their approval.
I still am. Whenever I think I can take decision on my own , I come to a point where I think I need their approval.
My parents still thinks I'm small, fragile ; who is still quite young to decide. On the other hand  my brother thinks I'm still his small little sister whom he needs to protect.
Well I have crossed my teens and will soon be alligible to booze legally though I don't encourage boozing.... All I think Is that I also have friends eho live alone in Delhi,  have nightstays at friend's place. ? And on ther other hand its me who can't even go alone at night.

At the and, just like my every blog ends,
Life is to live, and not  to sit and regret

Friends as we say..... or in real

My brother used to tell me often friends tends to have a very important  place in ur life... When I asked him once , why so? He gave me an answer which I never forgot, he said, "  you are never given a chance to choose your family nor relatives. Its  only your friends that god has given the chance to you to decide. This automatically tends to say how important they are."
Family and friends play the most important part in our life. The way we live, think and act  has an impact of  these two factors. Since family can't be choosen, its only our friends we need to choose. Its important to take this decision wisely.
Peer pressure can make you take wrong decisions in life. Many lives gets devastated due to wrong choices of peers in life. 
Its our life ultimately,  it should be we who takes major decisions of our life and not our family and peers...
As I say lfe is to live and not sit and regret..
So let u be the pilot of ur plane and make it fly high and reach where u want it to be

confessions of life

Man being a social animal can't b seperated completely from society. We have to live in this society and follow its norms. Relations is one such thing without a man can't exist. U might ask why? We can live, we dont need anyone we can handle ourselves  and don't need others . But try asking yourself... really

We often take relations forgranted. When we have them , we don't value them. But once we loose them, thats the time when we realise how important they eere for us. How much we need them and how much we love them.

Get up and show your loved ones that u care.. u care for them and how much u love them.

Showing small signs of affection and love can make a relationship bossom like garden of love..

Go ahead and leave those ugly egoes behind  and spend a lovely evening with your loved ones...

After alll life is to live and not  for sitting and regretting