Monday 15 April 2013

Misunderstandings v/s Egos

The title itself describes the tussle between misunderstandings and egoes. Often when a fight takes place between us and our loved ones, the main reason is misunderstandings. Though its not the only reson, buy in most cases this is the only thing that makes a small fight into a biggggg issue.
Misunderstandings often takes place between two people. But the only thing which  can clesr it is just a small conversation where every individual is given a fair chance to speak their heart out. But the problem arises when this small conversation turns into a  battle,  where only you are right  and the other one is wrong or I say a fool ( because he's trying to talk to you ).
Here comes the role of taking decision wheather to talk or not. In this sort of situation, everything gets spoiled just because of our egoes.
Its not that both the parties doesn't want to reconcile, but the question who will put aside his/her ego and sort the things out? In most cases, the only things to sort things off is a little sorry, which gets hidden behind our huge egoes.
Just think once, is a little 5 letter word 'sorry' that difficult to say? Is our ego much bigger then our relationships?
Many relations can be saved if misunerstandings are cleared by letting our egoes be at bay, rather then regretting later what if I had said sorry. 

At the end as I say, Life is to live and not to sit and regret.

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