Sunday 21 April 2013

Trust: measurable or just a simple belief

Have you ever trusted somebody? Of course yes. If not many then atleast some eg. Parents. Trust is the foundation for any relation. If you can't trust somebody than how can you be with them.

People say you can't trust everybody. You know who can betray you.. okhh got it. But how can I know whom to trust and whom not. Is it written on sombody's face that he or she is trustworthy? Or are there any signs or some kind of characteristics that defines trust. If there are some of these then how can we trust that they are right or wrong?

Now after so much of confusion on to trust or not, I've have a different t ake.on this, " To trust someone we need to spend time with them. And when we spend time we automatically tend to develop 1st block of trust. By this I can conclude that if you want to trust somebody you don't need reasons for that it just happens. You can't measure it . Its just that inner feeling what we say gut feeling that tells us to trust."

There are many so called super intelligent or who knows everything kind of people, haven't they been betrayed in life? Its never that you know everything, you get to know by age , experiences, etc. By everything we experience may it be good or bad, we learn from it and becomes wiser. Everyone can shower you with their so-called knowledge, but its ultimately you who will be living this decision. 

Also what I personally feel is that trust is something you always need to have or else nothing strong can be built. But don't trust someone blindly is the word. Still I feel if you give your 100% trust even if you get betrayed it would be the otherone who will be guilty of betrayal.

So its your call, don't go by others words, its your life, live it the way you want it to be. No one can teach you to trust, it's all in you, your heart...

Life is to live and not to sit and regret...

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